I have decided to follow a path in life that simply won’t go away in my heart or mind. Perhaps we alway write about what troubles us, doesn’t make sense and only by writing we might find a way to make sense. The subject is the intergenerational dynamics of the Partition of India. Many of my clients over the last twenty years are Indian (NRIs but I also had a practice in Nariman Point, Bombay). Many of the clients challenges in life (alcoholism, work-addiction, hysteria) could be traced back to that terrible Asian Holocaust. I ran a personal development group in Bombay for over a year and without exception, each man and woman in the group (average age 45) had parents who if they were raising their children today, would likely be diagnosed with PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). What each person in the group struggled with were issues of trust and forming healthy loving attachments that weren’t chaotic or disorganised.
What I plan to do is to write a non-fiction book about Partition, not overly academic. Although I am writing a fictional case study of about 10,000 words about work with a mother and son. (I was lucky to talk to many elderly people in Bombay who experienced Partition and despite being a white English woman, people seemed to find great value in talking about their experiences.)
For some reason that I have no explanation for, other than the obvious fact of being great admirer of your work, I wanted to reach out and connect with you.
My very best wishes, your fan troubled by the after effects of Partition,
Julia
Julia Noakes
Psychologist
Barncote, Swanborough, Lewes, BN7 3PG ,UK
pathetic writeup on Babur considering he was a butcher and an abusive man – just like any other muslim invader! What is happening to Yazidis today is nothing compared to what Hindus faced in the past and yet you gloat about him!
Typical bengali mentality ! People like you should be ashamed of yourselves, calling yourself educated and sickular!